
Parts & Patterns
All of you deserves
to be loved.
Even the parts of yourself
you struggle to accept.
Parts and Patterns offers experiential, coherence-oriented, and internal family systems informed psychotherapy for individuals navigating the personal journey of reconciling what you’ve been through with who you want to be.
Is This You?
The patterns that used to protect you are now holding you back from the person you want to be.
Feeling stuck
You feel tired of blaming yourself for being stuck in a rut. Other therapy has left you more self-aware but still unable to shift your inner world to notice a difference in your life.
Going in circles
You thought you had processed your trauma but find yourself keeping the past at arms length because it hurts too much to think about.
Tired of fighting
You know what you need to do, but keep doing the opposite. The emotional side of you that feels uncontrollable are the remnants of a survivor inside of you who had to fight so hard to get where you are today.
About Laura
“Change starts from the inside. It doesn’t happen to you, it’s something you choose. When you’re ready my job is to help you unlock the change that a part of you is scared of and doesn’t believe is possible.”
Hello! I’m Laura Danese. I’m a clinical social worker currently working toward licensure while practicing under supervision at Winchester Community Mental Health Center.
My work is shaped by systems thinking and with Internal Family Systems, I’m especially interested in the worlds inside each of us. I often work with people who are ready to shift from explaining their experiences to exploring what they feel through experiential therapy.
Outside of my clinical work, I love board games, Spotify, and walking through the forest pretending I’m on a magical quest. These things rejuvenate me, and I love helping people find what rejuvenates them.
The Approach
What to Expect
I believe meaningful change comes from learning to meet yourself with curiosity and compassion. My goal is to help you reconnect with parts of yourself that may have been pushed aside or learned to survive on their own.
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Parts-based work
Internal Family Systems (IFS) sees you as made up of many parts — each one with its own feelings, memories, and roles. None of them are bad. We get to know them together.
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Curiosity over judgment
Instead of analyzing or fixing, we practice turning toward what’s happening inside with openness. This isn’t about getting it right — it’s about getting honest.
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Depth, not performance
We take time to slow down and explore your feelings on their own terms. Being fully seen is a truly transformative experience.
Bi-Monthly Reflections
From the Blog
Twice a month, I share thoughts on therapy and how it unlocks our potential.
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The Light is Sweet
Read more →: The Light is SweetWhat causes breakthroughs in therapy? Two things have been on my mind lately: a band I’m going to see in concert this weekend, and what…
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Self Esteem: Accomplishment in Alaska
Read more →: Self Esteem: Accomplishment in AlaskaIs self-esteem worth all the hype? I met a foster parent a couple of years ago who didn’t think so. He told me about his…
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Self Criticism
Read more →: Self CriticismIs self-criticism an effective form of motivating ourselves to be a better person? Most of us assume so. We need to rein ourselves in or…